A four-day, three-night travel guide to Cebu, Philippines, a test for couples to get along well!

This is my first short trip with my boyfriend! After four days, I feel that it is better to stay in the hotel when traveling in the Philippines. There is no need to go out because it looks too unsafe!

Hotel: Shangri-La, Cebu, Philippines
The overall environment is very good, and the sea is also beautiful. I think it is comparable to the Caribbean Sea! The point is that this hotel is very suitable for family vacations. The facilities in the hotel are very complete. In addition to most water projects, there are many entertainment projects! Golf, table tennis, billiards, etc., game hall board games, in short, suitable for all ages! There are also beautiful seaside restaurants and candlelight dinners for you to choose! But the food tastes really not as good as Bali.

At that time, we found out after four days together:
✅We both love ice cream, French fries and pizza.
✅We insist on working out together every day (he rarely worked out before).
✅We have the same concept of time and never lie down in the hotel.
✅I like outdoor sports. He patiently teaches me what I don’t know. I will work hard to learn snorkeling with him
✅Support my pursuit of art and be my little assistant - take beautiful photos for me.
✅Street stalls and high-end restaurants are both precious experiences in life. The most important thing is that we treat the person around us with our heart.
✅When there are different opinions, express your opinions and respect each other's positions.

These big and small things together mean that finding teammates who can make each other's lives pleasant, efficient and progressive is my understanding of love. In my opinion, whether everyone's goals are consistent is a very important thing, especially the planning of marriage and love, which can be talked about in the early stage of knowing each other! This is me. Any unequal demands will eventually lead to a breakup. Living habits and personalities may be compatible, but goals are not. It is different from campus love, because the success or failure of social love depends on the test of two people's different past experiences to create common values.

Some people may say that the tolerance of love can solve the problem! In fact, in my opinion, when you and him want different things in love, even if you give more love, it is compromise and tolerance, not tolerance, and you can't get the love you want.