Chiang Mai Guide: Dating and Keeping Girls in Local Bars and Nightclubs

This time I will mainly introduce the bars in Chiang Mai, mainly the popular bars that Thai locals go to. The characteristics are that there are a lot of beer girls working part-time or full-time and beer girls do not sell their bodies directly. You can hook them up by yourself. The working day is 500 baht, but the salary + tips are at least 1,000 baht a day, or even higher. Therefore, there are many beautiful college students who are short of money but unwilling to sell their bodies working part-time in these bars. Because these female college students are short of money and do not sell their bodies easily, many rich people like to flirt with these female college students. Of course, girls also look at people.

When playing in a bar, you can give a 100 baht tip to hug, touch, and grab, or you can specifically find a girl to flirt with and sleep with. Note that it is flirting or hooking up, not directly asking how much. This requires certain emotional intelligence and language of the players. In short, whether it succeeds depends on your overall strength. These are all experiences of my friends. Some people gave the girl 1,000 baht in tips the first time they went, and then asked the girl out for dinner, and then took the girl out to sleep and gave the girl 2,000 baht after that. The total budget was within 10,000 baht. The second time they asked the girl out, the girl did not come out. Some people went many times and spent a lot of money, but did not bring the girl out. Some people took the girl out to sleep, but spent a lot of money to sleep, and then they couldn't bear it in the end, and the girl took the initiative to ask out. I will pick a few to talk about later. In short, the most important thing is to have language requirements for players. At least you have to be able to communicate in English, and it is best to know Thai.

Among the five more popular bars in Chiang Mai, the bar with the least has more than 10 girls a day, and the bar with more has 40 girls a day, which adds up to hundreds a day, but no more than 5 can communicate in Chinese. The Chinese communication I am talking about is not just a few words, but barrier-free communication. So if you don't know English or Thai, I just recommend you to try it. The cost is not expensive. I will talk about it later. In fact, you can have a lot of fun. Many girls are very open. It doesn't matter if you don't know Thai. English must be good. Chiang Mai is not an international metropolis like Bangkok. So the girls working in Chiang Mai bars can communicate with you fluently in English. They must be college students. I have verified this repeatedly.

The specific information of the bar is basically the same. A bottle of Black Label costs 2,000 strains, a bottle of Chivas 12 costs 1,650 strains. In short, a bottle of Black Label or Chivas 12 costs more than 3,000 strains for a full table. Anyway, I have been to different bars hundreds of times, and the most I have spent is more than 5,000 strains at a time. The reason is that there are two bottles of foreign wine. The normal order of a full table of dishes and a bottle of foreign wine is more than 3,000 strains. The wine can be stored, and a bottle of foreign wine can be drunk many times. If a bottle of foreign wine is drunk 4 times, and the next 3 times I spend 1,000 strains each time to order other things, in fact, I usually spend 500 to 700 strains each time, which means that on average, it costs 200 yuan each time.

The first bar has the characteristic of "departure" every day. There are an average of 25 girls working every day. The girls often change, and the turnover itself is also very large. You can choose which girl you like and go, and don't go if you don't like it. In addition, the girls are the most open-minded among all the bars I recommend. Girls can run around everywhere, but they are very smart. If you tip, they will accompany you. If you don't tip, no one will accompany you. They don't accompany you from beginning to end. There are very few foreigners here, mainly Thais. Generally, girls will start with 100 bets and leave with 100 bets. This is the way.



This restaurant doesn't have an English name. The driver can search on Google Maps: masjid Nurul chang, etc., locate it nearby, and then take a taxi there.



The second one is Nobar. The lighting is too bright, so the girls can't let go. If you want to touch and grab them, it's impossible. Then you can play billiards, not regular snooker. There are always some girls coming out every day, mainly the top student girls occasionally appear. Whether you can pick them up depends on your ability. There are an average of 15+ girls going to work every day.



The third bar is opposite the Immigration Bureau. I think it is a bar with several extreme values. The bar has the largest venue and the most girls working every day, an average of 50 per day, which are updated from time to time. The prices are still the lowest among similar bars. The problem is that the girls are a little arrogant. As the bar is basically full every day, if you go there for the first time, you may also encounter the situation where you can't find anyone to tip??? Moreover, there are the most part-time female college students in similar bars. Most of the girls are also very open. After the end at 12 o'clock, the girls will sit with the guests for a while.

Among these three, nobar is actually ranked last, because on the one hand, the girls are fixed at a fixed point, there is a service table, and they can't walk around, and the lighting is too bright, so the experience is not very good, so everyone can rank this one last.

Let me tell you a story about picking up girls in Chiang Mai:

A friend lives in Chiang Mai for retirement. Although he is over 50 years old, he is still strong and healthy. He has to find a woman every week. Because he has a mysophobia, he only likes to pick up girls. The requirements for girls are good. Young and average-looking girls are acceptable. Young and beautiful girls are better. In the past two years in Chiang Mai, he has spent a lot of money just picking up girls. Not to mention more, I must have spent 100,000 RMB. He has picked up many girls. I have seen and known 7 or 8 of them. There are also failures. In short, it is 50-50, which is pretty good overall.

My friend's goal is to pick up girls from clerks at 711 convenience stores to part-time beer girls as a college student. He has already gained his own experience. In addition, because of constantly picking up girls, he has learned Thai to communicate with Thai girls in a simple and barrier-free manner, which is amazing. So his goals and success rate are both increasing, but the money he spends is also increasing.

One time, he went to a bar with his friends and flirted with a part-time college beer girl. The girl was pretty and of Chinese descent, so her figure was much better than that of a Thai girl. She could speak a little Chinese. Then his friend gave him a 1,000 yuan tip, asked for his contact information, and asked him to go out for dinner. I also asked for the girl's contact information, but she ignored me and made it clear that she would not go out with me. It seems that this girl is also looking for someone to serve her, with a clear purpose!

I don't know the specific details of my friend taking a girl out. The first time he went out, he had sex with a girl, which was very memorable, but the price was an Apple phone worth more than 30,000 yuan. However, the price was not worth it. Because he spent too much and couldn't make up for the family's account, his wife confiscated all his bank cards and gave him a fixed allowance every month. He was an old man and a young wife, and his wife had 2 children. Then he had no choice but to borrow 30,000 yuan from me. He went out with the girl again. This time he bought the girl a set of clothes, had dinner and had sex with her. The cost of two sexes was about 10,000 yuan, which is quite expensive in Chiang Mai. The girl's family is not bad. The girl's family lives in a very nice single-family house. Both her parents have good jobs. He couldn't understand why the girl did these things when he was having a lot of aftertaste. Later, he gradually alienated the girl, mainly because his wife controlled his money. If the money was not enough, the girl would naturally not come out next time. Many Thai girls are like this. If you sleep with someone the first time, whether you can sleep with them the second time is a problem.

Note: This situation is easy to understand. The family is rich, but it does not mean that they can satisfy all the desires of their children without limit. After all, the girl wants channel bags, earrings, and iPhoneX and often changes them. Parents will not spoil the girl like this.

I met a Thai girl from a very good family before. She was also very beautiful. Later, she went to study in China. She also liked to buy things. When she arrived in Shanghai, she wanted to make money, so she worked in a sauna for a while. These girls are just like the girls who go to Japan/Korea to make money in the off-season. They post on Facebook and Instagram because they are going abroad to play, but in fact they are going to make money. When they return to China, they are still good and good children from a proud family.